Robert Jay Spain

I am your mother,Patti  Allen Spain Havlat, born dec 14 1951, was 23 when you were born. I love you very much and I think I did a pretty good job raising you to be a compassionate and caring man, who really had a great sense of humor and a creative side.I married your dad Ricky in nov of 1971. We were  very happy until we lost your dad  in 1986 in a boating accident that you were with him in.

then in 2002 we added another addition to our family.Then in 2004 we made it official.I was so proud to have you walk by my side and give me away.

Jim came into the picture and has been a great influence to the whole family, he loves his new son and his daughters

He was so sad when you left us and he told everyone how much he loved you and he cried with me.